*Meeting In The Ladies Room* Part 1

Let's discus the mystery behind what men really want in a woman. Well first of all what they really want isn’t a mystery. Every woman has a magical upside down triangle in between their legs that is at the epicenter of every man’s mind. (A guy friend of mine called it that and i thought it was hilarious) When a guy meets a girl the first thing they do is size you up. They see if they can “afford you”. I’m not talking about with money. They try to figure out if you are worth the time and effort it will take them to get to your triangle. Some guys will put in the work and some guys may not be interested in you enough to actually wait long enough for you to decide you are ready to give it up. What every woman has to realize is that we have ALL the power. Once you allow a man into your triangle, you gave up your power. It is almost impossible to get that power back once you have sex with a guy. That is when you will see a decline in interest that the guy has toward you, because he feels like he conquered his challenge and will be on to the next challenge. Now, in some cases if you wait long enough and the guy really likes you and he is at the point in his life where he wants to be in a relationship, then you have a chance of it developing in to something more than just a sexual thing. But the key to that is making him wait long enough. So many girls think the opposite. They think that in order to get a guys attention they should sleep with them. That is absolutely not the way it works. You'll have his attention while he's having sex with you, but any attention after that will be few and far between, if any at all. First of all every guy wants a challenge. Second, if you give it up too soon he will think you do that with every guy and will not take you seriously. He will still sleep with you, but if you want it to be more than just sex with that guy, forget it. And please don’t use the line “I don’t usually do this” because he will surely tell his friends. It’s kinda a joke when girls say that. They are gonna think if you say that to them your saying it to other guys. And if you “don’t usually do this” Don’t Do It!! You should never feel pressured into having sex. If you are messing around with a guy and things are going further and further and you don’t feel comfortable with it, don’t go any further. You don't have to feel like well we have done everything else so now I have to sleep with him. NO, wrong! Hey, if he thinks you’re a tease so be it. I’d rather be a tease and be able to walk outta the room and not feel used or uncomfortable because I did something I didn’t really want to do. So go on and be a tease if you have to be. Never ever have sex with a guy because you feel obligated to. You don’t owe it to him. He needs to Earn It! What makes things tricky when it comes to men is that they say they don’t want it if it’s that easy… well they sure do still sleep with the girl even if it’s easy. But they will not take her seriously after the fact, because they already got what they wanted. I’m not talking about waiting a week or two. I’m talking about making him wait months. The girls who don’t make guys wait mess things up for the girls that do. It allows a man to wander. He could really like you, but ol’ Jenny from around the block comes along and give it up on the first day. Now of course he will take it but he wont take her seriously. So through many conversations with my guy friends this is what I have concluded. In translation I don’t want it if it’s that easy really means that they will take it if it’s easy and sleep with you, but they wont take you seriously as far as anything beyond sex. So ladies, please Know Your Worth. What you do sexually now in your life may come back to haunt you one day. Nonetheless the emotions that come along with it. Women have the power, so use it wisely.

Love, Live, Give, More.

Love Always,

Sheri Xoxo

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