The power of letting things go is a power stronger than any Superhero can obtain. It takes a lot of understanding, and sometimes we go through things that we can’t understand. Rather than dwelling on it, the best thing to do is accept the things that you cannot change. If you continue to carry hurt and pain, your hurtful past will become a hurtful present. That pattern will continue, and chances are it will grow over time, eventually making you bitter. You can't just bury it deep down inside, you have to truly get rid of it. If you only bury it, it will eventually resurface. Acceptance and forgiveness is key in the process of letting go. As hard as it may be to forgive things that were done to you, you have to do it. You are not going to prove a point by not forgiving someone. When you forgive them it doesn't mean that what they did wasn't wrong, and that you are condoning their hurtful actions. Forgiving them is beneficial to you. You are showing that even though they did you wrong, you can still be a bigger person. You are not going to allow them to corrupt you by holding onto what they did to you. Don't allow walls to be built around you because of unforgiveness. The walls aren't protecting you, they are holding you back. You have to let things go, not trap them in.
You should continue to grow and flourish, and live the life that you know you are meant to live. We were not created to live a life full of depression, anger, resentment or bitterness. We have a purpose set in our heart, and that is what we should focus our energy on. Be excited about the possibilities of your future. Don’t waste time dwelling on the things that you cannot change. Even if it’s not necessarily things that someone else did to you. It could be things about yourself. You may have done things that you’re not proud of. Forgive yourself. Learn from your mistakes and move forward.
Love, Live, Give, More.
Love Always,
Sherixoxo
The thing is that sometimes we cant forgive. I cant do that in relation to certain people. Forgiving is not that easy as it seems. even when we say "ok, I forgive u" we still remember some things, and we'll never forget.
ReplyDelete"You are showing that even though they did you wrong, you can still be a bigger person. "
-- so should we forgive even the most hurtful things? I know that this will show that we are strong, but maybe then this person can feel like nothing happen?
"We were not created to live a life full of depression, anger, resentment or bitterness." <--yes, we defo not! But we dont choose that life. It choose us. And I guess those things making us stronger, better, experienced...
"Be excited about the possibilities of your future. " <--this is what I do. I am excited. But also I have alot of worries, which I can't forget. Is that bad? Maybe I should only focused on what will b then?
LLGM xoxo
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You are sooo right. Sometimes forgive is pretty difficult to me (just talking about serious cases, huge troubles). at the end i finally forgive'em but i treat them in a different way. I just feel they're not trusty any more to me, so the realtionship changes. u know what i mean?
ReplyDeleteBut, yeah. U r sooo right!
thx Sherii =) u always make me think about lots of things.
LLGM Gotta love ta Sheriilicious
Im certainly willing to forgive ppl a lot because I understand this is a world of second chances and the key thing is watching how someone says I'm sorry, do you really see the meaning behond it, will what he/she are apologizing for not really happen again? Trust is certainly a big responsibility, even more so trusting an apology
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