I think that the best way to surround yourself with positive people is to radiate positivity. Just as negativity is contagious, so is positivity. It can take just one negative comment to shift your whole mood. It could even ruin your whole day. This is why you have to learn to brush of all negativity with positivity. You don’t even have to say anything back to that person. You just have to say to yourself “Ha, I’ll show them”. Don’t let anyone get away with being blatantly disrespectful to you. Always stand up for yourself, because if you allow someone to treat you bad they will. Don’t be an easy target. It’s like the bully in school. Negative people prey on who they think are weak minded. Remember misery always loves company. Negative people also don’t want you to be happy. They will try to bring you down with them. So if you can, try to remove yourself from the situation.
The power of positive thinking can take you very far in life. It is said to take a look at the 5 people you spend the most time with to see where your life is heading. I have never had a lot of close friends. Iv always looked at it as Quality not Quantity. Sometimes less is more. I have one best friend back home that I’ve known since I was 10yrs old. Out here in LA I have a lot of friends but only 1 of them is my best friend. I LOVE all my friends dearly. Everyone can be negative at times; it's a part of life. We are all humans with complex feelings. Just make sure that your good always outweighs your bad. Keep your intentions pure, your heart open and you will find happiness with the people who come into your life. Also, keep little inspirational reminders around you that keep you positive. I have little things all over my room that inspire me. I have cute decorative things on my wall that say Believe, Imagine, Inspire, Dream, Love, Live, Faith, Smile, Hope, Success, Happiness and Harmony. I love them they are so cute! It will take some time but I'm confident that you can find happiness within yourself.
Love,Live,Give,More.
Love Always,
Sheri xoxo
I'm kind of a loner. I like to be on my own a lot. I get shy when other people are around me and I don't know what to say because of being too afraid to say the wrong comments. But I do try to stay upbeat and positive as much as I can. I only get upset at myself when I make a mistake, but I do learn from my mistakes.
ReplyDeletesometimes a lot of people always try to feel you bad! and dont matter...if u think that u can...u can! thinking negative only bring results negative!
ReplyDeletei cant express how much ur words help me...
soo all i can do is give u thanks and follow ur advices!!
Love u Sheri :) xxxxxxx
Some people seem positive all the time, they are looked upon as strange... but invincible, so every one perceives even when they are not. A human can only take a certain amount of beating weather physical or mental. most people let unnecessary Mental beatings hit them, even though they don't realise its hurting them whether you are aware of it or not, it's only too late when it starts pile up,up & up until KABOOM! so don't let it stop you, being you. "believe half of what you see and none of which you hear". just remember that you can be somebody if you are strong to yourself and your beliefs. and if i let stuff get to me i just remember PCD's song "Until u love u" because it helped me more than I realised-”Find what is real what’s inside you, know there’s no one in this world like you, take maybe just a little time to start and see just who you really are.”
ReplyDelete*“Keep true, never be ashamed of doing right; decide on what you think is right and stick to it.”-T.S. Eliot
*“Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start *having positive results.”-Willie Nelson
*“A man is but the product of his thoughts what he thinks, he becomes.”-Mahatma Gandhi
lots of Love Amo xoxo
"You don’t even have to say anything back to that person. You just have to say to yourself “Ha, I’ll show them”." - This is so true. When people try to rain on your parade, don't bother stooping to their level and try to argue it out with them. It will never get you anywhere and can even make you come across as a bad guy too. Just keep your chin up and take the high road and soon the losers will get bored and drift on.
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