Emotions vs. Logic

We are all naturally made up of complex and diverse emotions. Especially women; we can seemingly cry at the drop of a dime. Interestingly though women are also strong in the way we are able to handle and put up with so much. In most cases women seem to be more emotional than men. It’s usually because women hold a lot in, but it’s only a matter of time before we breakdown and let it all out. Just as a sponge can only hold so much water before it can’t soak up anymore. Where as for men they usually deal with their emotions internally. The reason I say there is no logic in emotion is because when u act off emotion your actions usually aren’t logical. Really think about it. When we regret saying something to someone it’s usually the times when we are hurt by that person or feel like we need to be defensive. You seldom will regret something that you say or do when you are not acting off emotions. That’s why when something bad or hurtful happens to you, people will tell you to sleep on it. The way you handle the situation in the morning is going to be different from the way you would have handled it while you where in the moment. We can’t help the way we feel. Sometimes we can’t even justify our emotions. There are times you will be in a bad mood or feel hurt and you can't even pinpoint why you are feeling that way. Try to switch your focus by doing something that you enjoy doing. Go for a walk and self-analyze yourself. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself. You might even find that it’s not what someone else did to you that got you feeling down. It could be something from within. In order to change the way you feel you have to address the problem. It’s so easy to put the blame on someone else. Sometimes you just have to make a small change in order to find happiness. We get caught up in dwelling on the smallest things sometimes. I look back sometimes and say to myself “Why was I even trippin about that?” In the moment something someone did or said to me bothered me, but in retrospect it was something so stupid. Before you act out on emotion, stop and really think about the consequences your actions will bring. Every action causes a reaction. The best way to solve a problem is to give it a little time; sleep on it. Then act on it when you are thinking logically, not emotionally.

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Communication is key..

There are people in this world that will try to make you feel like you can’t do anything right. They are always making you out to be the bad guy. Sometimes this is because they themselves have done wrong to you, so it makes them feel better to put the blame on you. They will never be able to walk in your shoes, so it’s hard for them to even begin to understand the reasons for your actions. No matter how much you try to explain, they don’t want to hear it. They would rather put you down or make you feel bad about it, instead of seeing where you are coming from. They feel as if once you do one thing “wrong” they can hold it against you to make themselves feel better about their wrong doings. That is not right. You have to accept responsibility for your actions. Two wrongs don’t make a right. This happens a lot in relationships. When one partner is dishonest and unfaithful they end up feeling guilty about it after the fact. They will then look for anything that the other partner may do “wrong” to make themselves feel better for their wrong doings. They use it to justify their own actions, instead of being the bigger person and accepting responsibility for their actions. Once this happens, it’s usually a downward spiral. You can’t make progress in a relationship or when your trying to mend a relationship if you both keep pointing fingers. What do you do if you find yourself in this situation? Well, communication is key. You can’t solve a problem without communication. Whether it's between family, friends or someone your in a relationship with; you have to talk things over. You might not get the outcome that you want, but at least you will get an outcome. Honesty with yourself about your own wrong doings will allow you to be honest with the other person. Honesty can either set someone free or be the first step in mending a relationship. It’s better not to leave any skeletons in your closet, because what’s done in darkness will eventually come to light. I believe that true LOVE can prevail. It takes both people to accept their own faults, as well as accepting each other’s faults. It will take some time and forgiveness on both parts, but anything is possible.

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Surround Yourself With Positivity.

I think that the best way to surround yourself with positive people is to radiate positivity. Just as negativity is contagious, so is positivity. It can take just one negative comment to shift your whole mood. It could even ruin your whole day. This is why you have to learn to brush of all negativity with positivity. You don’t even have to say anything back to that person. You just have to say to yourself “Ha, I’ll show them”. Don’t let anyone get away with being blatantly disrespectful to you. Always stand up for yourself, because if you allow someone to treat you bad they will. Don’t be an easy target. It’s like the bully in school. Negative people prey on who they think are weak minded. Remember misery always loves company. Negative people also don’t want you to be happy. They will try to bring you down with them. So if you can, try to remove yourself from the situation.

The power of positive thinking can take you very far in life. It is said to take a look at the 5 people you spend the most time with to see where your life is heading. I have never had a lot of close friends. Iv always looked at it as Quality not Quantity. Sometimes less is more. I have one best friend back home that I’ve known since I was 10yrs old. Out here in LA I have a lot of friends but only 1 of them is my best friend. I LOVE all my friends dearly. Everyone can be negative at times; it's a part of life. We are all humans with complex feelings. Just make sure that your good always outweighs your bad. Keep your intentions pure, your heart open and you will find happiness with the people who come into your life. Also, keep little inspirational reminders around you that keep you positive. I have little things all over my room that inspire me. I have cute decorative things on my wall that say Believe, Imagine, Inspire, Dream, Love, Live, Faith, Smile, Hope, Success, Happiness and Harmony. I love them they are so cute! It will take some time but I'm confident that you can find happiness within yourself.

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Sheri xoxo