As women we need to set the bar high when it comes to the way a man treats us. If we don’t set the bar they will set it for us. In most cases they will set it lower than what we deserve. Ask yourself this question. What is my worth? That is one of the most powerful questions you can ask yourself. When it comes to sex, giving it up too fast is dangerous for so many reasons. Besides health concerns, you have a whole other mess of problems on your hands. Self confidence is an essential part of living. When women allow men to take advantage of them it takes a toll on their self esteem, self confidence, and last but not least self worth. As women we have the power. We have the “golden ticket” that needs to be earned. I personally hold myself at the highest regard, and so should you. Just because a guy takes you on a date, doesn’t mean that you “owe” him anything. If he buys you something it should be outta the kindness of his heart, not that he’s looking for something in return. I know my worth. I'm worth more than a date, a pair of shoes, a hand bag, etc. That stuff is not worth taking a piece of my soul. Sure we all get fooled from time to time. We think we find someone who genuinely cares about us and they turn out to be less than what we had hyped them up to be. At some point you have to learn. Don't allow it to keep happening. As long as you set the bar high, hold yourself at the highest regard, and know your worth; you will hold the power. You never should feel like you owe a man sex. That is just ridiculous. You shouldn’t be sleeping with someone who makes you feel that way. The true test to know if a guy really likes you for you is making them wait. If they are hyping you up talking the talk, you better make sure they are gonna back it up. Don't fall for the game. After all, men like a challenge. Don’t give it away, make them earn it!
Love, Live, Give, More.
Love Always,
Sheri xoxo
I've been single all my life, so I wouldn't know about much of this. But good stuff here, Sheri!
ReplyDeleteI've been single all my life, so I wouldn't know about much of this. But good stuff here, Sheri!
ReplyDeleteWow, I loved this! This is so true.. thanks for posting!!
ReplyDeleteI truly related to everything you wrote here, and I've always believed in it. Im 19 and growing up, alot of my friends treated sex as something casual and nothing special..alot of them would have sex after the first date or after being with the guy a couple weeks, and they've never understood why I wanted to wait to be with someone I love so its special. Unfortunately we live in a society that seems to influence it but I think girls deserve more respect, they sell themselves way too short, and hey if the guy really loves you then he'll be prepared to wait.
But thanks for writing that :) you mde me think! hehe xoxo
Thank u for reading my blog and posting comments Isaac and Lyssa. :)
ReplyDeleteI remember that Melody once said that it's "Slim picken's in La" (as is the rest of the world) that people say they are more than what they really are. "A girl worth having is a girl worth fighting for, do you really want it that easy"- Sherixoxo :)) so play hard to get girls (not for his wallet but for him to earn your heart!! hehe
ReplyDeletebut always remember: "if that dude ain't acting right, you tell that dude HE'S GOT TO GO!!"- Whatcha think about that ~PCD :)
this is on of my favourite quotes from the cosby show :))...
Kenny:- "My brother says that a woman gives love to a man automatically"
Rudy: -"Well you gotta earn my love" ..hahaha
xoxo