As women we need to set the bar high when it comes to the way a man treats us. If we don’t set the bar they will set it for us. In most cases they will set it lower than what we deserve. Ask yourself this question. What is my worth? That is one of the most powerful questions you can ask yourself. When it comes to sex, giving it up too fast is dangerous for so many reasons. Besides health concerns, you have a whole other mess of problems on your hands. Self confidence is an essential part of living. When women allow men to take advantage of them it takes a toll on their self esteem, self confidence, and last but not least self worth. As women we have the power. We have the “golden ticket” that needs to be earned. I personally hold myself at the highest regard, and so should you. Just because a guy takes you on a date, doesn’t mean that you “owe” him anything. If he buys you something it should be outta the kindness of his heart, not that he’s looking for something in return. I know my worth. I'm worth more than a date, a pair of shoes, a hand bag, etc. That stuff is not worth taking a piece of my soul. Sure we all get fooled from time to time. We think we find someone who genuinely cares about us and they turn out to be less than what we had hyped them up to be. At some point you have to learn. Don't allow it to keep happening. As long as you set the bar high, hold yourself at the highest regard, and know your worth; you will hold the power. You never should feel like you owe a man sex. That is just ridiculous. You shouldn’t be sleeping with someone who makes you feel that way. The true test to know if a guy really likes you for you is making them wait. If they are hyping you up talking the talk, you better make sure they are gonna back it up. Don't fall for the game. After all, men like a challenge. Don’t give it away, make them earn it!
Love, Live, Give, More.
Love Always,
Sheri xoxo
